Was it your fault? Was it his? Needless to say, it could be one of thousands of reasons, because different things turn off people differently. For example while a discussion on religion might turn off many men, some would be attracted to your knowledge in the said field. He was dating a couple of girls simultaneously, and whichever he thought was best suited to his needs, would be his future girlfriend. Girl, come on. If you started giving him feelers that you wanted more out of your sex relationship, then boo, you scared him away.
You wanted too much too soon. Well, believe it or not, men do think about stuff like how their kiss went. But hey, it is what it is. If you live far away, try to video chat or at least make a phone call. Breaking up through texting or Facebook may seem easy. But think about how you'd feel if your BF or GF did that to you — and what your friends would say about that person's character!
If it helps, confide in someone you trust. It can help to talk through your feelings with a trusted friend. But be sure the person you confide in can keep it private until you have your actual break-up conversation with your BF or GF. That's one reason why parents, older sisters or brothers, and other adults can be great to talk to.
They're not going to blab or let it slip out accidentally. DON'T: Don't avoid the other person or the conversation you need to have. Dragging things out makes it harder in the long run — for you and your BF or GF. Plus, when people put things off, information can leak out anyway. You never want the person you're breaking up with to hear it from someone else before hearing it from you. Don't rush into a difficult conversation without thinking it through.
You may say things you regret. Don't disrespect. Speak about your ex or soon-to-be ex with respect. Be careful not to gossip or badmouth him or her. Think about how you'd feel. You'd want your ex to say only positive things about you after you're no longer together. Plus, you never know — your ex could turn into a friend or you might even rekindle a romance someday.
Use these ideas and modify them to fit your situation and style: Tell your BF or GF that you want to talk about something important. Start by mentioning something you like or value about the other person.
For example: "We've been close for a long time, and you're important to me. For example: "But I'm not ready to have a serious boyfriend right now. For example: "So, I want to break up. For example: "I don't want to hurt you. For example: "I know you'll be OK. You know your value. Remember: the right person will come into your life and stay.
Also remember that dating is hard, for everyone. He was weak, boyish even and a little immature. It can happen. It just depends on where our headspace is at. So it can be helpful to cut him some slack, simply because it helps you to let go of any lingering feelings of anger or resentment.
Well, it entirely depends on the situation, the relationship you had with him, his reason for going quiet on you, and how long he did this for. Trust your judgement. It takes a bigger person to admit their mistakes and apologise — which he will have to do if he wants to come back into your life. Just take everything as it comes and keep heading forward in the direction that you know you want to go.
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Return my bank card to me and then permanently stay away from my room. I dated an Asian girl and when we first met we were all the time together since Day 1 — 1 night in her apartment and the rest of the time in my apartment even for straight weeks.
She was so caught by me, and we felt comfortable together. She was also calling me with sweet names and looking for attentions. Then, she asked for the last time help with her English test which I kindly did without hesitation. In the meantime, especially the last 2 weeks before she disappeared I started feeling a growing interest in her and more confidence about dating her, with a possible positive outcome. Radio silence, again. After a month and a half she wrote me asking how I was.
We exchanged very few messages then, and she disappeared again. When I contact her, she replies few messages back very slowly and disappear again. She told me in the beginning that there was nothing wrong with us, just she wanted time for herself to travel and make a roundtrip and eventually come back in the same place we met. I still feel interest for her and I feel sad and consumed by anxiety because she ignores me this way.
The only interaction left is her looking at ALL of my Facebook stories quite often, at least times a day, but still no messages, no likes, no comments, no calls, nothing. When we were together not officially as a couple she seemed to me a genuine person with genuine feelings and she really cared for me. I miss her so much. It is possible that she is still interested somehow? Should I wait or just give up? Thanks for everyone who replies, and have a wonderful day!
WoP not my real name. I am a mother of 4 grown daughters and 2 grown sons! I recently spent my b-day with one daughter on Key West for a week! She treated me disrespectful and we argued most of the time! I am broken hearted and need help getting past this! I am 72! I have been cut off totally by someone i thought was a friend who lives in the opposite studio blocks across the garden.
Then one day i texted him from down the road near our flats, to say i had some of the plant feed he needs and i can drop it by unless he wants to collect it later?
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